I strongly believe that Life offers fruits which are the results of
decisions taken in time,
environment in which one is brought up,
society in which he lives,
religion he is forced to follow or follows,
thought processes evolved,
maturity gained at that point of time,
Teachers he have met,
people and friends he interacted with
and a gamut of dimensions imaginary and real.
But the good point is all lives have their core areas of interest, persona, skills, value system, and their corresponding individual and combined fruits or results. We have to choose from those very cautiously and work on these as resources, sharpen them with tools available and walk on a path to make its best use. What confuses all of us is an irrational way of comparison, unknowing lowering of our own self esteem, not understanding our niche areas fully and also many a times mislead. We need a Lab to test us in standardised manner and we would definitely benefit.